My girlfriend and I get on really well... at least I thiught. We talk a lot on messenger if we aren't together. She would carry conversation, ask questions etc etc. That was until a few days ago when all of a sudden she changed like a switch. Her replies ok ages and they were one worded and not continuing. I carried, on as normal until I started to think it may be me... that I have done something. she said she's just having a rough time... nothing more..
I told her I was worried about her and I'm wondering if I had done or said something to upset her. She said no...
The one words and short replies had continued... I carried on as normal as much as it was bothering I tried to keep upbeat and carried the conversations as normal. Then out of the blue she asks to tell me something... I then think she's breaking up with me. After three hours she replies again and apologies to me for being untalkative and she is sorry that she made, it look like I had done soemthing wrong and that I shouldn't worry that she is going off me... she said sorry for the way she has been the last few days. But no real explanation. Anyway, I told it's fine, as long as I haven't done something. She apsaid I have done nothing wrong and she would tell, me if I had...
She is still answering in one word replies, and generally being distant.
I don't know what to think?
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Something has probably happened... I don't think that you've done anything though. I think that whatever it is she's trying her best not to be dramatic about it and is trying to keep you from it. It seems like she has an issue and is trying to solve it herself. It also seems like she might be a bit depressed and hurt... Often when people are hurt they distance themselves from the people that they care about to give themselves time to heal for a bit. It's perfectly normal so you shouldn't worry too much! She seems like she has everything under control. Just let her know that you're always there for her if she needs you to vent or anything like that. Remind her that you're dating her because you love her and are there to support her. She might not reply to this with a lot, but it'll mean a great deal to her! She's going to be okay, so don't worry about her too much, just wait for her to heal herself and let her know that you'll always be with her. :)0