Most Helpful Guy
I would go see her wherever I wasn't working (because I work 15 hours north of my house) if your over 21 and two hours of driving and $40 in gas stops you from visiting your girlfriend in my opinion you should break up unless you are a student and really can't afford it because your getting your doctorite0
Most Helpful Girl
Wha? 1 hour?
You should see each other just as often as you would if you were 10 minutes apart.
That's going to vary from couple to couple -- some couples like more alone-time than others, and some couples just have less free time -- but, it's *crazy* to talk about a 1-hour trip as though that were something significant.
I could only see that mattering if you were still in high school and living with yr parents, but, you (OP) are in yr late twenties.
1 hour is NOTHING. Half my friends spend more than 1 hour/day just commuting to work and back.0