Is it a bad sign if a girl pays for the first date?

Or am I just reading into this too much? It was just a coffee date and she offered to pay after I offered and insisted on paying because she knew I paid for the parking garage.
I believe that it was a nice time. But would a girl try to give a sign that this is just a friendship thing by paying for the meal?


Most Helpful Girl

  • Lol noooo!!
    She was just being super sweet.
    Because a girl offered to pay doesn't mean she friend zoned you. She was just being thoughtful.


Most Helpful Guy

  • I consider she wants a second date, where she expects me to pay: each in turn


What Girls Said 1

What Guys Said 1

  • It is better if the girl pays. Women are supposed to be the providers and men are supposed to be the homemakers that take care of the family.