I have been asked on a couple of dates. Finding a guy to ask me out isn't the issue. It's keeping him interested that gets me in a situation. Or vise versa. I don't know, maybe I am too boring or maybe I am too honest and direct but after a few dates, its either I stop losing interest or he does. I mean first dates are usually a hit but the few ones after just sorta fizzles out.
How do I stop this from happening?
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I'm in the same boat as you. I've been able to get lots of dates and hookups, but no relationships. Only ones remained interested were ones I wasn't attracted to or they were super clingy. The women I've met seemed to be at two extremes, flaky or very clingy, no happy medium.
Not knowing what you're doing wrong on your end is frustrating too. It's not always obvious to us and sometimes you wonder if people are leaving for the same reason. It feels like I'm constantly starting fresh after the dates/flings disappear.
How are you meeting these guys? In person? Online?0
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