I've been dating her now for 2 weeks, first time we met, we had sex, in a hotelroom. i know that sounds super dumb. No i didn't pay her. 100 % sure she isn't into that kind of stuff. So i told her that same evening that i think she was a really cool person, yes sounds shallow concidering we had sex first time we met but we also had a good conversation afterwards and laughed a lot. So i told her, that i wanted to see her next day. She said sure fine, i could come to her place. She gave me her adress and it seemed all fine. However next day she cancels at the last moment, or actually delays our date till a later time that day, only to cancel it again.
next day she said she became ill , seemingly out of nowhere and had to go to the hospital. i was worried a bit and i drove by to see her at her place but it became clear to me that she had lied to me about her adress. i wasn't very amused by this and we phoned next day, she was almost crying on the phone. So we met up last Monday. we sat in her car and talked about her lying to me and talked things through. After that she gave me a bj. So last time I've seen her was after work, last Wednesday. We already made plans for this weekend but i just wanted to see her. yesterday she canceled our plans again, saying she had a problem and not to drop by her house, she gave me her real adress this time. I've been checking her fb account, she didn't have one she told me and im assuming she has 2 children. pictures, timeline messages etc. Another lie that she told me, she told me she had no children and told me she had a stillbirth at 26 weeks, that her boyfriend left her and what not. I find this very disturbing concidering the fact i went through a real misscarriage with an ex girlfriend which left me in a depression. she knew about this and its like she used it to make me feel sorry for her, only to cover up that she is lying to me all the time. whats up with her and should i even continue this? i like her a lot but nothing seems to be true!
Ok, what do you people think I should do , I suspect this young woman im seeing is a mother of 2 and has a relationship?
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