I have never really dated... it is because the only person I was totally head over heels for didn't want to get into a relationship. And after I felt that crazy deep love I have turned every good guy down.
I just feel like I am deceiving myself and them if u continue any further without the same burning love I had for the first guy. But is it like that? After all, he wasn't worth my love and he wasn't any good for me!
Why should I turn down every guy that could be so much better than he ever was? Am I doing the right thing or should I give other guys a chance?
How long do you go with guys who you aren't madly in love with? Does anyone else feel the same as me? Should I stop worrying and give this new guy a chance?
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You don't always get the spark with everyone the same way. For some it takes longer. Perhaps they're less open and thus take more time to get to know. Or they're more hesitant.
But just because it doesn't happen in the first day, doesn't mean it won't happen at all. Maybe a guy you aren't crazy for on the first day, like you were for that one guy, will within a slightly longer period of time prove himself to be even better than that other one and you will be even more head over heels for him.2