if you're interested in a relationship what is the best way to go about it in your opinion?
People often either say "go for it and make an effort" and "it will come to you when you the least expect it". I have tried both, where i met a guy just randomly when i wasn't really looking, and where I got an account on dating apps and met guys thorugh there.
I just moved and I have met tons of guys, and the 2 guys i was kinda interested in either had a girlfriend or didn't show any form for interest. The guys who have expressed interest haven't been guys I have been interested in.
So by doing nothing I dont get a date and by being on a dating app i dont seem to get a date either. Should I keep trying or just accept that dating isn't in the cards right now? I haven't had a date in over a year and im strating to get depressed
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Well you need to try and be friends with people before you just seek out a person. You also need to be happy and satisfied with your life and learn to grow as a person. Yes, things do take effort. But unless you get to know people on the level you both are comfortable with, it won't work out. Plus your approaching this the wrong way.0