Inspired by another question on here. So, two scenarios :-
A) The guy is very enthusiastic, he texts you every day just general chit chat and stuff, there's no long-winded conversations just throwing the odd joke/tease here and there, some flirting etc. It's pretty obvious he's constantly thinking about you.
B) The guy is genuinely busy and you have to wait a few days between contact. He is still enthusiastic and the conversations are exactly as above - just far less frequent, as if you are an afterthought during his day (when he has nobody better to text).
Girls, which one would you prefer?
Guys, which one would you prefer if the situation was reversed?
I already know what works for me, i'm curious as to what you all think.
- A - KeenVote A
- B - DistantVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Lol i guess I'm the only one who chose b.
I actually just had this happen recently. Went on a tinder date, it was fun but we haven't been able to hang out for the last few weeks. Literally texts me every day and I'm just bored with it. I can only handle so many "how are you? How's your day going?"
Plus it leaves more conversation for when you do get to hang out
But I guess I'm unique in thinking that1
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Most Helpful Guy
I think they prefer it when you're distant at first and then once they like you a lot they want you to switch to being keen. This is one reason they fall for players so often.1