My guy friend (rick) and I have decided to take things to the next level. We were friends for 6 months. When he first met me I had a boyfriend and I was talking to him. He found out from someone else that I had a boyfriend and we stopped talking and focus on being friends. After my boyfriend and I broke up 3 months later Rick and I started talking.
We were talking for two months with no sign of moving towards a relationship. We doing everything a relationship entail but there no title. He doesn’t like me talking to other guys or going to clubs BUT were not together so Im free to do so. 2 days ago I asked why were not together he said “You want to move in a year, I don’t trust you because you had a boyfriend when I met you, We want different things out of life and your faith is different then mine.” I said all things you knew before we started talking, it just sound likes excuses to me SO we should be friends, I feel this is a waste of time”
He agreed, than called me last night just to make small talk. He said “I just wanted to talk to you” I told him I was out he said “Oh your out…. you should be its Friday….. well im let you go.”
Next day I asked him about work and he ignored me.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like he wanted you only when he couldn't have you since you had a boyfriend at that time. Now that you are available, his interest is gone. Weird, eh?1
Most Helpful Girl
He ignored you. So ignore him back twice as hard by getting rid of him. #BoyBye2