So me and this girl I like don't see each other often but we recently have had some good conversations. I visited her at her work twice and we talked for like a minute or 2at her work. I wanted to know how long should I wait to ask her out? I kind of just want to ask her out as a date already or just hang out as friends first but I don't know if she might find it awkward or weird. What do you Reccomend? Also I want to know if I should visits her at her work ( a food place) more often like once every week or twice every week or longer?
Most Helpful Girl
Ask her if she wants to hang out like go to the movies or something. Then while you're hanging out ask her if she had a good time. If she says yes and blushes then she may like you. Then you can ask her if she wants to go out again. Dont rush things though because she may not like that. It varies depending on who the girl is so just keep your head up and wait awhile.2
Most Helpful Guy
You're trying to make it too formal. If you have interest in her and would like to see her just say that. "I'm going to [such and such] on Friday night, wanna come along?"
Or how 'bout we meet for coffee, or a drink, and talk?
Be a man on a mission. Be going someplace, getting somewhere. Follow our interests with vigor, make something worthwhile of yourself. Girls love that shit.1