…allow the other person to have…
he is 33, and hasn't dated much at all...
I guess chivalry is not dead, he probably just feels like it's the right thing to do since it's just meals, if it was bigger things maybe you could share the expense like if it was a trip or something
Well i have a boyfriend, and we have been hanging out and he is trying to win me over so i leave my boyfriend... so hopefully him paying is genuine because he wants to, and not because he feels like money will get me to leave my man
I'm not denying that he may have an ultimatum but you said he never dated much so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt
Thanks for MHO
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@Afrochick thank you! <3
lol there is more than 1!
More than one what?
more than 1 guy, not cheating just exploring
You said you have a boyfriend. And going out with this other man is cheating boo boo. Don't act like that's exploring, that's cheating on your boyfriend clearly
Hey I got a invite for you
In my defense I am worthy of fighting over ;)
If you were single, maybe. But the way it is, either he is a chump or your boyfriend is. Who is the chump?
He might be a chump. But at least he isn't a chimp!
I think you should either leave your boyfriend or tell the chump that he's wasting his time. Leading him on just isn't right. Feelings will get hurt.
i can't make up my mind :(
Well when you enter a committed relationship, you're promising that partner that they are the only person they will date and you've broken that promise with him so choose the other guy.
so if you like a girl, you wouldn't want to treat her and take care of her?
Not in that way, i want a girlfriend not a prostitute.
Like how so?
That's just how things work. If someone constantly gives you free stuff and treats you, they will most likely want something out of that and feel 'owed' something even if that wasn't their intention because people have emotions that get in the way of our intentions sometimes.
@tyber1 you mean sexual favors or just self entitlement?
When someone develops feelings for you and you indulge those feelings they will feel like you belong together. And taking advantage of them will just make them feel used. So they will feel like they were entitled to something and cheated. Emotions at work, not logic.
It really is.
@Afrochick white chicks i tell ya. I invited you to my question and you never gave your opinion... The fuk mane? I thought we were brotha n sista
Just don't get to the point where it seems. like you are taking advantage of him. If you feel it is not fair, then offer or insist to pay or at least spilt.