So there's this girl I know. She's really cool and smart. She has a great personality. She's bi and and she told me she was into me and I've just been kind of going along and seeing where it goes.
The thing is I don't think of myself as bisexual. I don't feel sexually attracted to her.. but I still feel drawn to keep talking to her.. why? I don't get it. Is it just a quarter life crisis?
Most Helpful Guy
You're just talking with her and appreciating her company... at this stage, I would say that you're just a couple of girls who like talking to each other, and she happens to be bi and into you...0
Most Helpful Girl
I think it's because you find her cool, smart and you also said she has a great personality. That's how I think of my two best friends. And if you're not attracted sexually to her, that explains it. It's platonic, but not romantic. You can't just wake up one day feeling attracted to girls if you didn't before. I don't think you should worry about being BI, but also I think that you shouldn't lead her on in any way if you already have. I believe it's hard, but I was once in love with my best friend and he wasn't even though we were really close. Later he confessed that he was gay (I couldn't know because he is one of those straight looking bi guys) :D0