Aww thank you for this! I'm older than you and similarly have also never had sex but I'm very certain that he has had it haha. Does he know that you haven't? I'm not sure if I should tell him or just not say anything until we're getting intimate etc.
You're welcome!He knows, yes. I definitely think you should tell him, he'd appreciate your honesty and the fact that you're considering letting him be your first. xx
Hmm it makes me so nervous to think about, I'll try to let him know at some point. I would much rather have him know than not know before sex. Thank you :)!
What are you nervous about? How long have you been seeing each other? x
I'm nervous about the actual sex because I've never experienced it, and so I'm scared it'll be awkward because I'll be so shy haha.. and oh just a few months, I feel great with him, I just don't want to mess anything up you know? Silly anxiety..
I totally get you. I try not to focus on what could go wrong and just trust that my instincts will guide me during.. But yes, the nerves are definitely there... Perhaps more than I acknowledge. In the end, it matters most to me that I share this experience with him. I'm very shy too and quite awkward I'm afraid.. I hope it'll come naturally to me. Otherwise, I take comfort in the fact that he's the dominant one ;)I don't think you should be scared of messing it up, if he cares about you, it won't matter. It's your first time! I'm sure he'll be sweet and guide you through it. If not, he isn't worth it xx
Aww thank you so much for your kind words!! Made me feel way better ❤️❤️❤️
You're welcome!! All the best to you xx
Awe, thank you for your feedback! I'm really comfortable with him but I just blush when I think about the sex haha..
Lol I'm nervous already! I think I'll have a drink to calm down haha, oh man.
Lol, don't worry...
I'm a nervous wreck though lol! Hopefully everything goes right 👌🏼
It will be fine lol, just tell him you are nervous, take things slow, use lots of lube
Sounds good, thanks! I've been fingered once before haha but I've never actually had sex. But for once I finally have someone that I reeeally like. Hopefully it all goes well 😬
Hot! xDJust don't overthink it, it takes practice.
Haha! He actually has no idea, do you think I should I tell him? I think if I say I'm a virgin he'll feel a bit nervous or like he has to wait, though I'm totally cool with it. Maybe just before the sex lol 😂 and sweet thanks (:
Is he a virgin? I think you should let him know. Say you are nervous and a virgin.
Well, I'm 99% sure he isn't a virgin. He's a very popular guy and has partied tons, it would actually surprise me a lot if he hadn't ever had sex lol. If a girl you're dating told she's a virgin, wouldn't that make you want to wait a little more in case she's so shy etc? I don't want that
No lol, not me.. I would be gentler and stuff though
Haha alright! Thank you for the feedback ☺️
How was it?
Oh it'll be a while before we do it haha! I feel a lot better about it now though ☺️
That's great :)
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That's awesome! I'm terrified it may be awkward due to feeling so nervous.
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