I work with my boyfriend. I also worked with another girl he was into apparently. I had a crush on him for a while before he ever gave me the time of day. The girl he was attracted to was leaving work to move. We had a going away party for her. I flirted with him there. He didn't seem too into it. I asked him if he was seeing anyone, he said he was interested in her. Knocked me down a little, but didn't make me stop having a crush. 1 month goes by, then suddleny he's into me. I can't help feeling like I was the after thought. Like you know how you go to a restaurant, and the meal you really want is gone. So you have to settle for something else that you don't really want at all. I feel horrible. I try to talk to him about it, but he doesn't want to. Am I the second choice?