i finally got the courage to tell my guy friend how I felt about him after a year and a half of liking him, and now I have no idea what to do or what to think.
he wasn't awkward or uncomfortable about it at all, in fact, he was calm and collected. if anything, he seemed a bit flattered. he told me that the only reason why he thinks that he wouldn't date me ("although he finds me attractive and thinks I have a great personality" as directly quoted from his mouth) is because he thinks we are on "different sexual wavelengths'" and I have to admit I kind of do agree with him, but I still like him. I'm not waiting until marriage or anything (although I didn't say this to him), but I prefer to wait until I meet a guy who I'd want to be intimate with--somebody I'd care about. apparently, I think he is (and maybe all guys are) just the opposite.
so I'm torn because I still like him and now more than ever I feel like I have a chance with him, but I'm not entirely sure if he's worth it if that's his only reason for not dating me.
i don't think that I can just continue being his friend, but I'm not sure if I should just move on, pursue him a bit more, or just do nothing and see what happens.please, any advice?
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if he is not a waiting person then are you really willing to go in a relationship like that, you have to think about yourself first. cause at the end of the day that's who matters.
i'm sure a guy would come along who is willing to wait on you, at least that dude is honest!0