Yeah it have some importance, but clearly it is not the all. I saw some guys (and girls) who have even height requirements. I mean, come on, does it matter if your partner is little under your preferred ideal height? Physical attractiveness is not that important I think. Maybe hygen and style can be important but height, weight and skin color have no importance.
But, people who think about height and weight are extremely shallow I think.
How many women in the world are 5'9", leggy and perfectly hourglass typ
Most Helpful Guy
It's pretty important and if you're ugly you're going to have a much more difficult time in life. That's just reality. I think it's more emphasized in women in comparison to men though. Women are judged on their looks much more harshly than man. It's just delusion to say that it doesn't carry much importance. Especially in your younger years.. as you get older, people judge you differently but looks still come into play.
I've sort of lived this first hand. In my earlier years of HS I wasn't very good looking at all. People in general don't value you or what you have to say as much when you are unattractive.
But here is the catch.. most people are not actually ugly.. it's more of a choice to be ugly. Some people have to work harder than others but most of the time they aren't putting effort in the right areas.. or they simply don't care.
I started training at the gym. Went from a skinny-fat physique with bad posture to completely jacked from the start of HS to the my senior year. Was still sort of insecure and I ended up joining the military. This is when I really peaked. My physique was looking incredible, I had a ridiculous amount of confidence, had the hot girlfriend.
After that I literally had a different lens and perspective towards life in general. People treat me much better and actually want to hear what I have say. My opinions have value. I get more women talking to me. Day and night difference.2
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Most Helpful Girl
For sexual purposes. It's easier to get turned in and stay turned on my someone who is physically appealing. Also, so u can say my man/girl is hot. Maybe not to others, but u should think ur guy ir girl is hot.
I agree with what ur saying tho. Having standards vs having a preference r two different things tho. Sime people take it too far.0