I get told on a daily basis by strangers that I'm pretty, at least once a day. Guys flirt, but don't actually ASK me out, and when one does he's married😝😠😩😬. I think I'm pretty and I hold myself with confidence; More importantly I'm a sweet girl and I'm funny (or should I say goofy/silly.. lol) . Yeeeettt only married men or someone I'm uninterested in approaches me. Why? I'm initially shy and afraid of rejection -so me asking a guy out is not possible. I'm AA but I only really like white guys... those are the ones who flirt, but they don't take it further. Black men have said (n i don't agree) that I'm "out of their league.) I know my post sounds borderline arrogant, and I'm not. I just don't understand if I am physically attractive n i am a good person with a big heart, why am I single? I'm not desperate to be in a relationship, but this weather (fall) definitely makes me want to date. How can I make myself approachable? Lol
Most Helpful Guy
need more info, but normally when a girl has a small rack she has a nice ass. that is a different group of guys, but there are plenty of white guys also who like booty.
but basically as a few people alraedy said u need to just make urself more available to others. there are dating or what ever its called tips u can study online that can teach u how to appear more available to others and thus more likely to be approached by guys. in this day and age u want to look as friendly and open as possible, and i wouldn't do the drunk thing, but i would even try to muster up some fake courage some where and try to ask some guys u like out. let them know u are shy and its was a one time thing so they have the ropes after the first date ;) if the date goes well that is. i had a chick do this to me recently and i was greatly amused by her actions lol.2
Most Helpful Girl
Wonders why she's single...
doesn't see the answer right infront of her1