Why am I single?

I get told on a daily basis by strangers that I'm pretty, at least once a day. Guys flirt, but don't actually ASK me out, and when one does he's married๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฌ. I think I'm pretty and I hold myself with confidence; More importantly I'm a sweet girl and I'm funny (or should I say goofy/silly.. lol) . Yeeeettt only married men or someone I'm uninterested in approaches me. Why? I'm initially shy and afraid of rejection -so me asking a guy out is not possible. I'm AA but I only really like white guys... those are the ones who flirt, but they don't take it further. Black men have said (n i don't agree) that I'm "out of their league.) I know my post sounds borderline arrogant, and I'm not. I just don't understand if I am physically attractive n i am a good person with a big heart, why am I single? I'm not desperate to be in a relationship, but this weather (fall) definitely makes me want to date. How can I make myself approachable? Lol
Why am I single?
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