I have been talking to this very awesome guy; his very sweet, romantic, affectionate and he makes me laugh and smile heaps! Although his very feminine I am attracted to his personality however Im not really attracted to his looks.. I feel so horrible for saying that but I've heard that some people fall for personality first then become attracted to them physically later. His such a cute, dorky quite guy and love that so much about him but at the same time I dont want to hurt him if I dont end up becoming physically attractive to him.. probably sound shallow as fk and want to roll over and cry about it but have no idea what I should do. His one of the very few guys I meet who actually treat me right; doesn't play me or use me but is upfront and honest and isn't afraid to be himself as well as accept my weird quirky behaviour as well
Feel like shit, what would you do in this situation?
Most Helpful Guy
Do not feel bad, physical attraction is important is not everything but it is a lot, it just happens you can't change it, do not feel bad over something you can't control, just friendzone him, you are young at that age you shouldn't be looking to already settle down and shit , so even tho he sounds like a good person and maybe a bit too nice , its just part of your growth as a person, this is part of the process , once you have a guy wich is handsome and everything this guy is not, then you have the experience to decide what do you prefer, right now you want something that you dont have, but if this guy wasn't a good person but still handsome you would be wondering the opposite, " how would it be to have someone with a great personality", just move on.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes it helps seeing other women attracted to your guy. Him interacting with other females. Might wake some feelings of attraction in you, which you are currently unaware of because he seems "all over you". I know this has happened to me. I've lacked physical attraction to a guy until I realised other girls found him attractive. All of a sudden I realised his own unique handsome traits which were only enhanced by his incredible personality. xx1