I`ve been getting some F*cked up advice lately about guys and which way I should go with one I am interested in. The other day , I asked him if he was free , he responded very quickly and he seemed enthusiastic that I asked him. He told me he would find out and let me know... and nothing. Its been 4 days ! A few things : If I text him first ( which I have for the last 2 times ) he always responds and pretty quick , we`ve talked on the phone a few times. I know he is busy , but how hard can it be to follow up? . I don't like to text first but lately I have been and my fear is that he thinks I'm desperate and needy. Some say call him ( I refuse ) , others say toss him to the wolves. I honestly don't know which way to go with this guy , he seems interested and happy when I reach out to him but then says nothing. I need advice !!!