Why do girls only love when you hurt them?

Not talking about being a complete jerk, that is a turn off to most people.

But I notice you have to hurt a girl sometimes to get her to like you.

An example, if a girl buys you gift... and months later asks if you have it.

If you say you do, and you appreciate it... she won't love you.

Tell her you lost it, and she feels a bit hurt and realizes she likes you.


She wants to go for a walk at the park, you tell her no... she feels a bit hurt... but you give in after and make her day... and she loves you...

Why are girls like this? Do they want to love a guy more than he loves her?

It's really hard for myself because I can't show my love for a girl otherwise she gets turned off.
Why do girls only love when you hurt them?
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