I'm dating a new guy at the moment and I stayed over at his last night. For the first time I felt really tired and not in the mood for sex because I had a long day at work and had to be up early. We did stuff, but I couldn't really summon the energy to go all the way. So I sent him a joking text the next morning apologizing for being so lazy and tired. I care what he thinks in terms of sex, and I get annoyed at myself if I feel the other person hasn't been fully satisfied.
Would you appreciate this? Or is this too much?
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I would find it sweet and would see it as a sign that she cared whether I was disappointed or not. The humor keeps it from getting too serious—which is a good thing—and it's definitely thoughtful. The fact that you lacked the energy is also a sign that your relationship may have turned that corner from constant fucking into a more realistic normalcy, which is a bittersweet but inevitable phase for every couple. Bitter because less sex. Sweet because you're that close, now.0