Well I want a relationship
not all girls who are not focused on romance are going to reject the idea of dating but girls who don't make dating their priority are more likely to be single. Don't date a popular girl who acts like one of her main purposes is to find a boyfriend, she is usually taken.
And how do I do that
Dude it's like that it's why I don't wanna try anymore
I don't blame you, take a break from it for awhile and focus on something else and then try again when you feel up to it again and maybe one of them will be broken up by then
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Dude like I said almost every girl is in a relationship
Yes all like what there's a little bit more women in the world than men so a little over like 3.8 billion women are taken?I doubt it
Dude every girl I have ran into has a boyfriend
I guess it's time to meet new women that happen to be single, usually they're at parties or everywhere really. Tinder could be for you or dating websites. Sky's the limit
Not really like I said dude every girl has a boyfriend literally the only ones are the strung out on drugs ones that are single
What city do you live in where all girls are taken or high on drugs, I'd advise you to move then.
Dude I'm in college In school most girls are taken
At least I won't be hurt anymore
Congratulations for realizing that! But keep in mind that there will always be rejections no matter what. At least it would be fewer rejections to worry about if you did decided to call it quits.
See that's a good point
Focus on school and getting a good job instead or a good car. People breakup all the time these days, hooking up left and right and shit, and sometimes they cheat and shit.
Dude I'm not into that stuff
That's what I meant, you can forget about it all, unless you want to take your chances of being screwed over. You might end up being cheated on or the girl you thought you would be in a relationship just only want to hook up.
No this particular girl really does
Lol he can't fight
Then it'll be easy!
This is a spoiled frat boy I myself came from the projects where I was constantly surrounded by violence
Hey! I'm from the projects too!! Nice to meet you!!
So you understand how frat boys are laughable right
Depends on the frat boy.
What do you mean
Some frat boys are jacked and are cool dudes.
Can't control a crush
Ok well the women around me do
Well then get in a different environment, change it up. But don't assume they are all taken.
If she's really pretty it's automatic in my head she's taken
Well then I guess you won't date the pretty ones if you assume that and never make a move...
Seriously how many attractive girls are gonna be single
Well that's the thing you don't know where they are in life. They could be single for a number of factors, focusing on building their career, themselves as a person, casually dating but nothing serious because they haven't found the right guy, etc. I get asked this question all the time and I can't tell you how annoying it is. People are in disbelief that I am not dating anyone even though I am attractive.. and its because I am focusing on myself after my last breakup. I love being single, and I am enjoying it. Also, I only date guys I am really into who I see a potential future with not just any guy so I can say look at me I'm taken. I am selective in who I date because I know what I want.
Just sucks cause the only girl I have dated was strung out on drugs
hmm.. raise your standards for the next girl?
Beggars can't be choosers
You don't understand how much this hurts
Why does it hurt?
Because the feelings for the girl are pretty strong
Awww that sucks.
Yeah it does
So keep subjecting myself to pain
Okay then don't I'm trying to motivate you Lol... failing miserably though
Because it hurts to really like a girl and find out it's never gonna go anywhere those feelings don't just dissolve
They are all taken
no they fuckin aren't quit thinkin with your feelings and go talk to single women. if you were already confident in your own helpless mindset then why did you even ask any questions
Dude literally every girl I have caught feelings for later I found out she had a boyfriend
how many? five? even ten? doesn't matter. move on and talk to others. it could also be that saying they have a boyfriend is in their minds, an easier way to say that they aren't interested.
No that's not it they actually have boyfriends
if you're gonna be resolute in your sad mindset and just keep saying shit to reaffirm it, then just delete this question. either you're willing to change and get insight, or you want attention.
No dude I actually want a girlfriend it's just not looking realistic at this point
you're only further proving my point.
So what do I do
talk to fucking single girls, go to clubs, get out of your current circle to find people, hell go to a different city, just break out and find shit. break out of your current mindset, cause it clearly is not serving you.
you gotta learn to be better at introspection dude. when you learn to think critically about yourself and your mannerisms and emotional workings and stuff, instead of just insulting yourself for the obvious flaws with no true insight as to why or how those flaws came about, you'll be waaaaay better off, and a lot smarter
I'm not insulting myself I never once said I was ugly
I want you to come back and read this conversation after you've gotten a girlfriend and grown and stuff. the flaws on your arguments will be way more apparent then, you'll cringe at them
It's not gonna happen years from now this will be the same topic of conversation
see what I mean? you're only looking to confirm your weak bias.
So what I'm gonna force a girl to be with me
are you mentally challenged by any chance? actual question