I met a guy at the gym that i became attracted to. However, as I am really shy, I was too scared to talk to him. With the help of my (older) wing man, we started to say hi to each other occasionally. However, he works out with his friends and I would notice them glaring at me when I said hi to him (maybe he has a gf" I dont know). He would alternate between saying hi and ignoring me, so I decided to give him some space, since it seemed like I made him uncomfortable. He would only say hi when he was by himself. I left him alone for a while and thought that would be it. But soon after, he started saying hi again, which surprised me. Recently, we introduced ourselves and got some advice from him. A group of my friends and I are planning to do the spartan race, something he has done before. He gave me and my wing man a lot of good advice. After about a week, I found him on fb. Turns out, we have 3 mutual friends, one of whom I'm really close to. I decided to send him a friend request last week, but it's still pending. I think I creeped him out again. I haven't seen him at the gym since. What should I do now" I don't want to keep making him uncomfortable. Maybe I should just leave him alone from now on"