I had a first date last week with a guy I met a month ago, we have been talking a lot since we met and the first date was fun, we got on well, share similar interests, values and were affectionate with each other (Nothing too heavy just holding hands, hugs and a little kiss goodbye)
He has to move out of his apartment so he is looking for another. He has asked me to go along with him this weekend to some viewings-He said he wants me to happy with the place he chooses.
He has also invited me to attend a wedding with him in Caribbean next year.
While I feel it's nice that he wants to include me I have to admit I feel a little overwhelmed.
I know he's not asking me to move in, although he does say some things that suggest us living together in future, but it all feels a bit too soon and now I have said I would go I don't know what to do.
Most Helpful Guy
The apartment situation doesn't necessarily mean he has any other intentions than wanting some company as he finds a new place to live, the wedding situation is kind of iffy, that's usually a boyfriend/girlfriend thing and not something for someone you are just getting to know, like if it's a family thing that would be pretty awkward, but if you feel comfortable go for it, if not just tell him to slow down a little bit and give time to be more comfortable with each other before trying out "couple" things1
Most Helpful Girl
If you feel uncomfortable, it's ok to not go. You have the right to back out :) Just let him know before the day of.1