Yes i know that, but to me i font care about culture thing i dont wanna lose it cz im scared and no one is worth being your first i will have sex and lose my virginity for the first time when i wanna have a child and of course its not now im not ready i mean ok sex is so important buuut its a responsbilty also!
A crazy thing to say considering men built society
Ain't nothing wrong with that. Maybe you got to find the guy who makes you feel like that too.
you're an idiot coffinspire
@Stmarco hey thanks
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We are having sexual activities but i know sex is important we have been dating for almost 2 months and half we didn't tell our feelings yet, im just confused and not ready plus scared that he might leave after he get it then at that time no body was worth being my first
I understand. I feel for you as most guys want to hit it and quit it. I have my own rules about making love; I need to feel you are connected to me more than just physically... and it can't be just a fleeting thing. If you don't have enough in common then sex is all you will have. Take it slow and don't be afraid to break it off with him if you don't.Good luck! I'd date you but them I'm looking to settle down in the next few years.
Yes exactly and this how it should be MORE than physically to me too! I'm taking things slow it's only 2 months they're not that long to let him know me and get to know him too! I just wanna talk to him about this and donno what to say! He asked about sex of course but I said I'm not ready, and now I wanna know his view about that I mean what does please him or how can I make him happy cz sometimes I feel something is cold and I don't want that I wanna do new things with him also I don't know what're they I've no experience in relationships I only had one boyfriend he was the real meaning of asshole and he left me after he got anal sex and I still regret giving him that, that's why I'm afraid going through the same this time, but this man is different i really like him so much tho I promised myself not to have any relationship after my ex, but this man is a real man he's mature and direct many things to like can't fit here cz I talked too much but yea that's why I wanna make him happy
+ remove the coldness
The first thing you need to learn is YOU can make anyone happy and nobody can make YOU happy. WE are responsible for our happiness. Pleasing and appeasing are the worst things you can do in a relationship. Don't get me wrong, you should do nice things for your partner he should for you, but it shouldn't be your modus operandi to "make your partner happy"... What is the age difference between you 2?
I know it all. It's not a big deal to try to make your girlfriend happy!!! Forget trying I'm not trying with him anything I'm being me but I wanna do more for BOTH of us, it includes me too wanna do something for my happeness too! It's not pleasing at all and hate this word, it's something for both of us it's not bad!! He's 32 and I'm 21.
I usee to, but I don't know if I could and still be happy. Like once you've had sex you want it even more. But maybe if the girl was exceptional, gorgeous, flirtatious and has amazing chemistry I might give it a shot
Cz I'm not ready and really scared that he might leave after sex. We're having sexual activities but I wanted to know his view about this subject I didn't ask him yet but will do.
Not ready? OK
Yes is it weird?
Yeaa maybe it is lol... You should get over your insecurities
You said never ever but as long as you are not waiting for like marriage It should be fine
Both not but if she's not ready yet and scared that he might leave her cz guys loves being with virgin and being the fiiiirst one take it and then leave!
So you mean if she's not you would have sex for fun?
Well i do try to enjoy life to the fullest however if she's trying to save it for marriage than i can respect that and if she's worth waiting for than i would have zero issue with it
P. S. Wait, you mean never ever?
I just saw your P. S I mean she'll have sex it's not never ever but she's not ready and want to know the man she's with more.
A relationship can work without sex.. Not with all people but it's possible.
@Lindies But it's very unlikely. Most people want sex. Plus, not losing her virginity would mean no procreation, ergo, no kids... that's even more of a turn off.
Can you please share them i really wanna know
one of the big arguments is this... and it will be difficult or you to understand... since your virgin... but... you find an amazing guy... stay with him... everything ok... but he is just awful in bed... how long do you think it will last?
No it won't be! He's not awful in bed really we do other sexual activites he asked me if i wanna have sex i said im not really ready yet he said ok ill wait and its ok he won't do anything until i want it
I am talking in general... as a situation... that should answer your question
But also i wanna ask him how does he feel about it and what does he wants his likes dislikes but i donno how to ask him i have zero experince in those things
use words... communication is the key to many problems... and fear is generally the cause of them 😉
Will doo thank you!!
you're very welcome 😊
Of course not! But if she's not ready yet and scared
i would like to have sex before marriage. just a personal belief but i would be willing to wait til a personal was comfortable
The girl who gave me - 1 is pervert confirmed 😮
Hahahaha thank you!!!
No specific time but she's not ready plus scared that he might leave after sex men like being your first then they take it and leave
If she wanted to wait like 3 months or so I would do that, but if there is no definite time frame, then I wouldn't do it. I would think she isn't serious about the relationship.