I noticed that almost every couple I know the girl is in control. She tells him what to wear, and sometimes I hear men say "my girlfriend would kill me" if they cut their hair a certain style or wanna buy something with their own money! To me that's a turn off. I would never tell my guy what to wear or what to buy, but sure I might get "moody" every now and then but I don't want him to let me. I love being submissive. As long as he respects me and does sweet things for me too, I love cooking for my man, giving him massages, spoiling him, doing what he wants in bed... You know, at the same time I need a man to be manly, strong and protective. (Not jealous, that's different). But people see this nowadays as weakness from a girl. But I really enjoy it. In your experieces are most girls like that? Why? Because if we go back, they were the complete opposite. Why can't there be a balance?
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Sorry, but I am going to share my opinion on this.
What I really see is all girls like to let guys take control of relationship in the early stages when there's no committment at all (no marriage, no children, not living together... you know). What's more, when girls get on a relationship they didn't have to do anything. All girls are submissive as hell and all the approaching and contact is made by her boyfriend. Girls stucks in their ways.
Apparently, when this butterfly stage is gone and relationship has moved on to the routine phase women are starting to dominate relationship having to do whatever they want.0