Is it the norm for a guy to want to have sex with you before considering being in a relationship with you? Or is he just trying to use me?
Most Helpful Guy
NO! If they, did then they have unrealistic expectations. If you really are that comfortable with them then by the 3rd date at the earliest, other wise it can be delayed for as long as you like until you decide you really want to be in a relationship with them and if you really feel you can trust them to be loyal to you and commit to you. I still think it's best that the sex doesn't happen too soon as that will only create a bad habit for guys that may start to believe this is getting so easy that they could probably do the same to the next girl they talk to or date. Play hard to get a little, but you should be the one to decide when it is the right time to have sex and if you want to initiate then that may take some pressure of them.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, its usually the norm these days. But I am not rushing to sleep with a guy unless I feel like it. So if a guy keeps acting desperate and press then deuces.1