So, a guy asked me out for coffee. he let me pick the place. He has been friendly and courteous, although, he did make one comment about how I could decide what I wanted to do after the date (referencing sex). he didn't pay for my coffee and as we were leaving, didn't kiss me and told me I knew how to contact him if I wanted to do this again. maybe it's antiquated gender roles, but I felt awkward with him putting the pressure on me to ask him om the next date. why do this? is he not Interested or is looking to sleep with someone? I'm not trying to read too into this, but any thoughts?