My fiance is flying out to be with me, until we move into our new apartment together. She wants to have a drink with a guy friend of hers, and alone. She is often very flirty with him, she's told me she thinks he's attractive but she says she would never sleep with him, because she considers him "Like a brother". Should I be worried about this? I trust her 100%, but I don't trust alcohol or any male under the influence, given there is a flirty relationship intact.
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No heck no! She just told you that she flirts with him a lot and im surprised she even told you that like its nothing and that she is attracted to him so why does she need to be alone with him? No that is not cool and its about respect on her part. you can still trust her but her telling you that is like asking for permission for something to possibly go down. Do not fall for that. you need to let her know that you are not cool with that at all since they flirt and she is attracted to him. i dont care what she says about him being like a brother. Who flirts with their brother? think about it. you are the man and gotta have some balls. its all about how you say it, not what you say. If she gets mad or tries to make you feel like you are insecure, then she does not respect you nor the relationship and is clearly trying to get away with hooking up with this guy easily by you saying its ok to be alone with him. who asks for that? please put your foot down and tell her no and why.1