I'm a very insecure person in my life and I feel like I need to have a girl in my life but deep down inside I know I don't want one and I should just focus on myself. Many many many girls have told me I'm insecure so I know that and I know it's a really bad thing, but how can I get over this feeling? Whenever I'm rejected I always think I'm doing something wrong and I get depressed. Any thoughts? What are your experiences?