Well then you're still dating and have someone in mind. But as for me, I don't have anyone in mind, I don't have any prospects, and have no desire to go out and look for one neither. I've met women, but other than kissing them, I haven't really taken it any further, and haven't really wanted to.
Thank you. I ask that question bc my last real relationship was my marriage. I dated someone for a month, but that obviously didn't go too far. I wonder if I'm still affected by my divorce on a much deeper level.
Probably you still are affected. Don't worry, it will pass. You just need more time. It's not wrong. It means you cared for your ex wife.
Was that question yours, about not being in a relationship for over 3 years?
I was single for 3 years before my last relationship. And my last relationship lasted 2 months. Now I am single again for 3 months. I just don't seem to have any luck.
Well you seem to have a good head on your shoulder, you'll meet someone soon.
I hope. And you will too. Just keep being caring. It's a quality.
Why were you single for so long? I'm sure you didn't have a hard time meeting guys. Did u just not go out for a long time?
I had dates. I met guys, but not the right ones...
I can agree with that. I feel like I'm extra careful with whom I choose to spend time with now that my marriage ended. "Once bitten, twice shy."
What's the right one?
One who can respect me. One interested by me not just my body. I know it sounds cliché but I am honest.
I don't think it sounds cliche, I'm sure it's hard for women to sort through guys who want nothing more than to get laid. How do you test for that? How do you know if he just wants you for your body or if he's testing you?
It is obvious...
Are u saying u would reject a guy just for making a move on you?
No. I reject them after I see that they are interested only by my body. Don't think I am seeing that after the first date. I am not that mean. I give them chances.
That sounds fair. I ask that, bc as guys in this society, it's up to us to make the move, how we go about making that move is totally specific to the guy.
I tried online dating. Worst thing ever (for me).
What was so bad about it? And which site did I try? Don't tell me it was tinder.
No, not tinder. One called badoo. It wasn't for me.
What's your biggest turn off? I mean other than a guy trying to get into your pants?
Stupidity I guess
So you're turned off by stupid guys that try to get in your pants. What's your biggest turn-on both physically and personality wise?
Physically, tall well built men. Personality... hmm... intelligence and sense of humor.
Did u go get any rest last night?
Yup. Did you?
Yea, I had to sleep pretty early for work at 6am
Oh... I have to wake up at 6am tomorrow.
For work or college?
What's your ideal date look like?
For college. I don't know... attractive and interesting. .Yours?
I meant to ask you where would you like to and what you would want to do on a date when I asked what an ideal date would be.
I think my ideal date would be to get some dinner and maybe an activity. Something fun
What's your major
Medicine.Oh, I missuderstood your question about dates haha. My ideal date would be a dinner and a walk.
Nursing or MD? What's the most interesting date you've been on?
I haven't really dated, but the last girl I took out we went took to the water front in Seattle and had oysters and then we walked the boardwalk and went on "the Wheel", it's a big Ferris wheel on our pier.
MDI once was on a date where he took me on a nice restaurant. It was winter and it was just beautiful. He just chosed the right place. Very romantic. It didn't work out so far... we were very, very different persons so...
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Yes I'm always working on something, it's just that something isn't going out to meet new people. I just work a lot I guess. Thank you for your reply.