You just described me...
You must be successful or you've dated someone who is very successful lol
@Nelsoen I only seem to get along with 5% of girls. The others seem to try and attack or get rid of me. Am I the only guy this happens to?
I'm sure it happens to a lot of guys lol
yo with a picture like that u shouldn't b talking xD
dude... that picture is robert carlyle from once upon a time. he's an actor.
i was jk girl relaxx
it's all good.
lol the last one...n yaa i had a marihuana problem but iv been sober.. n also really bad alchoholbut iv been clean :)
Lol yea 😅 those type of guys just read social media stuff like "Latinas be like" and that just male it seem that they only like me for their fantasies rather than reality.And well if the guy had been clean and looks he tries to be sober than that's good. Is not easy :3
ya fuck those guys im hispanic n i respect everyone... especially my lady :b n yaa it was hard but now i got goals n ahah i laugh at how stupid my friends n other people get.. i never got like that..
Cierto, q bueno q ahora estas mejor
no si gracias a dios ya me estaba cargando la chingada xD
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i agree... im actually looking for a soul mate.. that hoe life just isn't me...
What about hair loss 😑
@beaves11 I wouldn't put it as a dealbreaker.
Haha okay I had to shave my head from shock loss and it's not coming back so I was just curious if a shaved head made a guy unattractive physically
@beaves11 You get attractive guys with no hair :) I've seen some. :)
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2176090-girls-18-24-can-a-guy-your-age-be-attractive-physically-considerThat's a pic from a question I posted awhile back you think I can? You can be honest haha I'm thick skinned
@beaves11 You have good features. I'll have to have seen you in person though to say if I personally felt attracted but I can see from the picture you are most certainly not bad looking. Just difficult to say cause camera angles are often skewed so I feel like you'll look better in person.
... that's my good angle😔
@beaves11 A camera is a dangerous thing. Even a good angle will still to a certain extent morph you to look different and often, worse. Unless taken by a professional I'm almost certain anyone will look better in person than vs a selfie.
So I don't look good there? Haha I'm saying from the side I'm just not as attractive.
@beaves11 Read what I wrote to you please :)
Hey thanks for all your insight!
Bad grammar? Interesting.. So if you hit it off with a really great guy but found out weeks later he was a bad speller you would dump him?
@Jager66 No, but it really puts me off.I don't really have deal breakers, but I do have things (as in the above list) that will make me think twice. The grammar and spelling, unless English is your second language, or you're dyslexic, comes across as just lazy to me. The occasional mistake is fine, that one word that always gets you? Fine. But constantly misspelling words, and misusing punctuation and grammar really irks me. I hate watching my dad write anything. He can't spell toilet paper for crying out loud! NEVER let him write a grocery list. You will end up buying sardines when he meant to write sausages.Really the only ACTUAL deal breaker here is the bad vibe. The rest I can logic out and ask him to change, and it can be changed. Bad vibe? Get out, I don't want to know you and I don't want any of my friends to either.
Makes sense, thanks for responding. I was interested because I'm nearly an opposite to that so I was curious for your perspective. For me I grew up learning two languages at the same time, English being primary, and then in high school it was a lot of time on the internet as well. So I was learning American English, British English, Canadian French, France French all at the same time. The result... Terrible grammatical and spelling skills with a large vocabulary... lol. So I kinda have a deal breaker for people who have a problem with bad grammar and spelling.
Does excess body hair comes in your point number 3?
@notsoromantic No, I mean stuff like not bathing, not brushing teeth, or keeping an extremely dirty living space.
And I don't mean just skipping the occasional shower, either. I mean being a seriously unclean person.
Mostly men keep somewhat messy living space. That's also deal breaker? Excess chest hair isn't?
@notsoromantic I didn't say messy. I said dirty.
What if he was addicted to you? ;)
What about no hair? Shaved head?
Usually bald isn't for me. But I don't know, twenty one pilot's singer Tyler Joseph can make it look attractive so why can't other people? Haha
See the thing is EVERY girl my age (21) says it's not usually for them and let's be honest; that's a nice way of saying you wouldn't date a bald guy right? Admit it, I'd never date a fat girl or even slightly pudgy girl and I'm not ashamed looks matter, what irks me is hairless is seen unattractive when it constitutes nothing about a persons lifestyle or health etc except for in cases of severe illness but those are few and far between, most hair loss is slope is variation my person loss is shock, anyway you can see the issue especially since I have high standards on girls looks (and no I'm not lowering them and shouldn't have to just because I lost my hair I only need one great looking girl with a good heart in the end) and I want to be married mid 20's to a girl younger than me.
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...b768-a6d0cce969a1-m.jpgThat's me, many say I rock it what do you think? Be brutally honest here as I said looks are important for me and a girl and I still hold my standards high even bald, I shouldn't be expected to accept less of a looker just because I lost hair when I work hard to look good otherwise.
What if he had to shave his head bald from hair loss?
@beaves11 I can be a bit more understanding in circumstances like that. I love my boyfriend for other things, besides his good looks.
You imply a bald guy doesn't have good looks? That a cute face etc is completely null when bald? cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...a79c-af25c58ae474-m.jpg
@beaves11 Not at all, I'm sorry if it came off that way. I'm just not personally attracted to bald guys. I feel like you have to have a certain type of facial structure to pull that off. You have a very nice face.
Well I mean here's the issue every young woman especially the more attractive say what you say 'oh I don't think bald looks bad but I'm not attracted to it' guess where that leaves me? And I got high standards on a girls looks, I may be a beggar but I still have the right to be a chooser when it comes to that. Basically you did admit that hair or lacking it completely takes away attractiveness yes? Why is that? I mean the genuinely? It's not like fat where it affects the whole body it's just haut
@beaves11 I'm not turned off by every bald guy. I mentioned, that you have a nice face. Your features can pull off such a "drastic" look. But many men look terrible without hair on their heads. Also, I like being able to tug at my man's hair while we make love. It's just a sexy thing I like & thinking about it is making me blush while typing this out. It's the same sense that some girls can't pull off different hairstyles or colors. I would look disgusting as a blonde. Complete trailer trash grossness. I'm not mad about that & I'm also not mad that some people just don't find anything about me attractive. I mean yeah, if they called me ugly to my fave, that would hurt my feelings. But I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea & that's OK. Everyone has different preferences.
I know but wouldn't you agree most young women find bald to be a serious issue like yourself? If it was one and two I wouldn't care but the majority seem against it and as I said my standards on a girls body looks and mind are high and I refuse to accept less just because I lost hair which makes that bias against bald harder.
@beaves11 I really don't feel it's that huge of an issue as you're making it out to be.
Wow! The 4th one is interesting. Haha
gash on palm is ok as long as ur hands are clean n u take care of them... n well attitude depends lol well ur prwtty so i dont see y not jst b humble
lol.I feel the same way when girls talk about hygene. I was born with bad hygiene.
@TrollMan lmao.@225Taylor what about when girls talk about a man's height? It's not their fault either.
ok yea you have a point there. I guess I just have to find someone who doesn't mind my feet the same way a short guy needs to find someone who doesn't mind his height
Merely wanting anal sex is a deal breaker for you?
ew wtf the man recieving anal?cuz my x told me her new boyfriend liked her finger in his booty xD i was like WTF
yes just wanting it, bc i will absolutely never have it. if it becomes important to him hell resent me. plus anal is generally very painful for women. i find it suspect that guys get so much pleasure fantasizing about an often painful act. especially bc many will admit its the fact it is painful but shell do it anyhow that turns them on. to me pain is not pleasure and i don't confuse the two. anal sex is suitable for men not women, as men can orgasm directly from anal sex via the prostate being stimulated. its like the woman's g spot. IF HOWEVER, he wanted to have - purely casual just for fun- anal sex with guys while we are together and was 100% ok never ever ever having anal with me, id be k with that as long as he got tested regularly.
If men can get orgasm from anal why can't women get it as well?Anal design is gender neutral Asin both male and female have same anus
wtf thats digusting... if a man has sex with a man i recomend u run.. run and dont look back
Hey I shave my head what's wrong with short hair?
yayyy im a decent person :D
im very jealous :$
You're going to trigger a lot of people lol
Don't forget bald, you've said that to guys here before
@beaves11 Don't forget 'top 5 deal breakers' :) That doesn't qualify in my top 5.
But does qualify,
@beaves11 Of course, I've already said that. But this is more stuff about our outlook and what we want in life so it comes higher up the list, which is why I couldn't put bald in. So not sure why you bringing it up is relevant, it just kinda sounds bitter :P
When you and other say bald is so bad it completely defines a mans looks, even when he dies everything else to keep in good shape and looks yes that is ridiculous and I'm n** that girls value something as petty as hair which isn't controllable while defending themselves when they gain weight out of laziness.
@beaves11 I'm sure.
Ohhhhh... and a big one I left out.Takes away my computer and internet... that might be worse than a deal breakers.
Don't listen to those girls that are saying they dislike sexism. If they did, Trump wouldn't have won... kekekekeke!!1
yeaa nobody wants sombody like that xP smelly ass bum xD
I don't know what "busted feet" means. in a cast?
no like iv ran into really pretty girls.. they were wearing sandals.. n BAM ! busted feet looking like she walked around bear foot all her life
you mean dirty feet feet wth callouses feet with cuts feet with a tan... busted means what exactly?
@AriadneSky tore up like she dragged them..like fucked up toe nails,, dirty ,, I don't know jst not cute feet u kno.. flintstone feet... like i understand a tan but i mean caveman feet like oh shit wtf happpend...like WHAAAT ARE THOOOSEE
lol guess wer not a match thn
Guess that rules me out... hahawww.greensmilies.com/.../...ey_emoticons_joint.gif
@WhereAmI - lol, I mean 'hardcore' drugs.You WOULD find this.
Lol gaming? What's wrong with gaming?
@CHRIS11796 I'm assuming she means that it's bad if you're an addict. It's bad to be an addict to anything.
@Dred1614returns ya but some girls act like gaming is a nerd thing though which stereotypical as fuck.
@CHRIS11796 can you read? "Any type of destructive addiction", and then I listed a couple of examples. I play games myself, I don't think everyone who plays games has a problem. But it can definitely be a problem if you let it become a destructive addiction. That was my point.
u seem pretty chill
Excess hairiness == bad hygiene?
@notsoromantic whos is this guy dude relax..jst ask ur own question lol ,, n if ur that hairy. trim yo shit foo
What if he had a shaved head?
😐 eh what
What if he had no scalp hair? Would that be an issue?
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...a79c-af25c58ae474-m.jpgLike him haha is that deal breaker?
Well I'm not into bald guys, lol. I prefer hair, haha but if he had cancer I wouldn't care (obviously) but if a guy wants to be bald af then go ahead lol
So it IS a deal breaker? Or just against preference? Are most girls like you? He lost his hair to shock so he can't grow ot
It isn't a deal breaker, just not my preference and I don't know lol I can't speak for all girls
I just meant an idea like how most people don't like fat etc, would you say it's like that?
I have no idea tbh