Met this guy on snapcaht and we have being talking a lot and hung out twice he seemed really nice at first and would tell me and send me all these sweet messages but after meeting up andhanging out he has changed and will constant just asks for nudes and get pissy when I say no and he will text me asking if I want him to come over and hook up but I feel uncomfortable hooking up after not even being on a proper date and I would like to get to know someone and go on a few dates and feel comftable around them before I sleep with them maybe am just too shy. I do really like him as he has a fast car and tattoos and really fit but I think all he interested in is sex should I just count it as a loss and cut contact unless he wants to start treating me right? Anyone being in this situation?
Most Helpful Guy
So you basically want him to like you for your personality and try to get a deep connection with you, when all the reasons you give about why you like him are extremely shallow. He likes you for your body and you like him for his body and his car. You really can't expect much more when a relationship is solely built on shallow shit like that.4
Most Helpful Girl
You need to stop thinking about his fast car, tattoos, & fit body. lol Trust me, I've been there before. It won't help you. It'll mess you up actually. Focus on what YOU actually want. Do he want the same thing? Great! Match made in Heaven. If he does not want the same thing as you, then yes it might be very hard to do but you have to move on. Asking for a proper date & getting to know someone before u rush into sex seems to be asking for too much these days or it's just the type of guys. Pretty sure it's the latter.2