Is it days, weeks, months?
Help - what shall I text back as not heard from him in 10 days. Shall I just be normal? More aloof?
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I'll share my experience here.. Recently I was "rejected" after coming across to strongly, invading privacy, questioning and insulting someone I was becoming close to due to perceived fears during a hypomanic episode. I wasn't sleeping well and had constant panic attacks, nightmares when sleeping. I wasn't in my right mind at the time. My feelings grew too fast too soon. I came across as too needy/clingy. There were some very strong feelings on both sides. When it all fell through I distanced myself. No contact, feeling indifference when I see her for going on two months now. Occasionally I've thought of reaching out for amends, asking her how she's been, wishing her a happy Thanksgiving.. however deduced it would be best to hold back. While I'm a bit avoidant still I'm not too fearful of reaching out. It's more or less she expressed at the time she wasn't interested in further contact so I pulled back and distanced myself. No means no so I'm not going to continue pursuing. I want to respect her wishes and give her time and space. I want to leave it up to her to reach out when she decides she is ready and can trust me again.. I still care about her and have feelings just not as strong as before.. I've been trying to bury feelings of pain, remorse and what I feel for her.. Trying to move on and continue working on myself.. keepin' on keepin' on.. Meet new people and socialize more. It could be weeks, months and even years or never.0