If a guy dates a girl for 2 years with out a title does that make her his long term side chick or unspoken understandable girl? How long will a guy who says he's not ready for a commitment date a girl? and I say date; like buy her stuff, call, text, take her out, cook for her, and celebrate holidays with her. Will he keep her indefinitely, eventually end it, or eventually add a title? How many years will a guy keep this up, with the same woman?