I have a Vietnamese boyfriend. He's first generation and pretty traditional in his family values. He talks about how his parents are going to live with him when they're older and I know it's a long ways out and we probably won't eat married but I just could never imagine living with my husbands parents, particularly ones that are abusive like his. I feel really bad because I don't think i could ever overlook it no matter how much I love him.
Most Helpful Guy
yeah, you are a bad person.0
Most Helpful Girl
If abusive means harsh punishment. That is part of their culture and some don't even see that as abuse. (Noted from various Asian Youtubers that talk about their parents) and well is also morals. They are his parents and they raised the boyfriend u love, so they can't be bad. Besides Asians values includes family orientation. So is seem harsh to not let parents or older relatives live with them, since putting them in a home or being alone is kinda cruel. (Im Hispanic and this is also seen an important in our culture. Family comes first)1