I honestly do not believe it does.
If I literally choose someone and invest my time and body into them, I don't expect it to be easy.
I know there will be times where I won't want to be around them and someone else will catch my eye.
At the end of the day, I wouldn't go into a relationship with that person if I'm unsure.
People throw around love so easily and end things/ don't take their time or keep the mystery alive.
I rememeber my ex said he lost the spark twice within two months of dating me which I find are excuses and a waste of time. If you do not want the same thing as the other person then don't enter a relationship. Like dating shouldn't be hard but people complicate things and hearts get broken everywhere. It's so annoying. -__-
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Most Helpful Guy
Well, you're 22. It's easy for you to say that the spark doesn't go away. The fact is, if you got into a relationship today and you're the same person 10 years from now that you are today, then something is very, very wrong. You're constantly growing and changing and sometimes that means that a relationship that worked for you at 22 no longer works for you at 32. Hopefully, the whole thing evolves and changes together, but sometimes it diverges instead and to me, that makes sense that that could happen. I don't believe that all people who have had failed relationships are guilty of just making excuses and I certainly don't blame a young person for making a mistake on a relationship.0
Most Helpful Girl
but that doesn't mean that the relationship is over.
There is a difference between the spark going away, and losing interest all together.
The latter is mostly true for people who picks partner based on looks only, etc.
So once they get used to the face, and gets to see the person for who he or she is, they lose interest. And in that case, they don't really wanna put in any effort, 'cause the whole thing was just merely for dating but not for a serious relationship
as for the first, when two people are in a serious relationship, knows they will be together, etc and then the spark they had at the beginning of the relationship fades, they don't lost all their interest and says, "hmm let's call it quits," rather they are creative in their ways of trying to make the relationship bright again.0