This has never happened to me before but I have been dating a guy (just dating as in going out on dates, not sex) for a month-Last night was 5th date.
I have decided that I am just not feeling him. I have tried to give him a chance as he is a decent guy but I'm just not into him for various reasons. One thing that annoys me is the way he acts like he has this big shot lifestyle and I know he's probably just trying to impress me but I'm just not impressed by things like that. My biggest bug is that he loves to talk about himself-Which is fine but I feel he barely asks stuff about me. Even when I ask questions that would normally prompt a 'what about you?' response. Regardless of that I can tell he really likes me and he's also told me straight up.
I feel bad and I don't want to just ghost or fizzle out but what should I say to him exactly?
A friend has suggested telling him the things that annoy me and try giving him a chance to change but I'm not sure about that.
I have a feeling he may have already gotten the message on the last date as I haven't heard from him too much since. Usually he has text me about his great weekend at some fancy restaurant or exclusive party by now!!
Thanks everyone for sharing your opinions :-)
Most Helpful Guy
Your not into him... he certainly is not going to stop living his fake hotshot lifestyle or stop talking about himself because he is INSECURE. You are not so GET RID OF HIM... quick. Life is too short to play games.3
Most Helpful Girl
Why do people always find it so hard to admit such things? I have never had an issue with that.
"I am sorry, I just don't see the possibility of us working out" why is that so hard to utter?0