I like logical girls... like you who have an elaborated explicit opinion and clear thoughtam I asking for too much?
@gentelmenjackNot at all, your entitled to your opinion and preferences in a woman, but they're going to be hard to find since most women are robots and take on the persona of somebody else instead of being themselves and act like a lady.
Try libraries or other informal events when looking for a potential dating partner.
you know problem I face with those library going girlsthey have read a lot of books and BLA BLA authors.. I haven't and have almost nothing to talk to them.. well I have read many but that's not enough for those species lola normal girl with smart and instant logic n humor.. my dream girl
@gentelmenjack You need to have balance. The thing is you don't always have to have everything in common with them.
Some may not want to be bothered at the library. Always approach a girl who is receptive.
you are rightbut should have taste for other ones liking too... you agree?
hey.. how to know which one is receptive?
@gentelmenjack Not really. It can bridge a good conversation, but that is all you will get from these girls. That is why as long as you make your intentions clear , is friendly and willing to learn about somethings it will make them feel attracted more to get to know you personally.
The main thing is being honest when you don't know something if your willing to learn. :) Girls like that are happy to teach you and share their other interests along the way.
hmm this is I'm good at😁I'm learner and I don't shy.. I don't then I don't knowbut for that reciprocation I need a strong confident girl... but mostly I meet girls who pretend and so they are like OK you don't know this haha. maybe Google can tell you and I hate that Google thing lol.. it vacuums the last few talking topics too😂
@gentelmenjack She smiles genuinely and she don't show intimidating looks in her eyes. It's more like her saying: hey don't be shy say hello. Than what I would do with unwanted attention: I don't know you, or want to know you. I don't know your true intentions. But if it's bad, leave me alone or there will be trouble. Kind of look. Remember the term ; if looks cam kill.
wowwill you teach me that eyes reading thingbecause I really don't understand their eyes till they are new or say stranger once friend a look at face and I can judge what's going on and mostly accurate
As long as you can show that your genuine, and your intentions are innocent then your all good. Try to give her space and not spend too much time with her. Go somewhere else and find something to do. If you see her looking at you, smile and make eye contact. If the library is her favorite hangout, visit. Build tact unless she shows she is uncomfortable. But girls who really like would want to spend time with you because they find you interesting.
But don't always rely on eye contact because as the old saying goes, looks can be deceiving. Always be verbal with your intentions.
Without fail. And if she pulls back then you pull back. Take your time. Know when you're crossing the line.
can you be mate.. wingman.. buddy.. girlfriend.. whatever lolyou are good
how to know I'm crossing line.. it's not just that guys flirt girls do that tooand you never know when you crossed the linelike you just started talking with a girlyou had good first few talks.. u stayed within limit...but then she is like talking flirty once in a while you ignored first fewbut you wanna stay in race.. so u do it too... she laughs we laughand then since you are good at sarcastic humorous flirts.. slowly she make stronger flirts and suddenly she is out of artillery and shooo... she is dull girl and u never understand what went wrong 🐒
Simply don't flirt. There is no need for social peer pressure here. It's just you and her nobody else. She is only going to judge how you treat her and wither or not you have inconsistencies in what you say to her. I find that flirting puts a lot of pressure for both males and females. it's not needed. As long as you have eyes for her and she only have eyes for you, who can judge but you and her?
Overall crossing the line is being touchy feely in a sexual manner, and your asking too much personal information and your crowded her space. I always say stand no more than about 3 feet and less than 2 feet. If she invites you to be closer then you go a little closer to her.
As for sitting make a bit of space between you if the chairs are to close or sit across from her if possible, which is better for 1st meetings.
but if you don't reciprocate with herit's like you are boring and too sober and she start losing interestyou are right.. if one made the intention clear and then it's going on that's differentbut how to reach that position where you can say hey what you have in heart n mindlike you can't just walk UpTo a girl and say.. I think I love you are you single let's date!you know girls start thinking wtf!!
first meeting be like knowing each otherat this point I know she is interested in me but the first time you approach a girl and she is nice and you don't know if she is being polite or she likes youasking for number.. never know when it's too early when it's too longonce a date is fixed you know for sure you have your chance your resume have be short listed and you are invited to interviewbut the question is how to make you CV shortlisted lol
@gentelmenjack That is because they have been conditioned to that mindset because of movies, media, female influences and crazy magazines and bloggers that give poor dating advice! Always make the proposal to be friends first. Get to know her as friends, then see if she meets your qualifications as a dating partner. You can't love somebody you don't personally knlw. Then that becomes classified as infatuation.
That is why you have to ask the question if she is interested in going out of she is not seeing somebody, isn't married and have an interest in dating at the moment. Ask her. Never assume. And if she does, then make your intentions clear. She will eventually understand your feelings, but don't make the mistake of not correctly stating what your saying. It'll be hard. But if you don't work at it you won't reap the benefits.
that's exact match... I like to make friends being comfortable together and then move next levelbut nowadays when you date a girl and be friendly it's consider u Dont like herbecause standard of boyfriend is he don't make her laugh, who's don't say funny things to her. they don't share there funny embarrassing past with each other, want to make boyfriend girlfriend thing like they are perfect humans. but now since I know that girl a lot better than many of her life long friends I'm disqualified for being boyfriendthat's how it happened with me 🐒
Then don't worry about such a person. Courting and dating have always been about process and eliminating. It will be her lost. It means that she was not for you. Find a woman who accepts you but can be equally attracted to.
Those are your terms, and she no matter who it is has to abide by that or else there is no relationship that is how I roll and believe in.
narrow down the list of possible candidates.
hmm. but I like her anyways and it's OK to be friend so I have nothing hurtbut where to find that other girl! Hardly I meet her put my best with her and you know the rest...
@gentelmenjack But some girls tend to cut ties with guys who liked them as friends because it complicates the friendship as a relationship. You're just going to be hurt if you can't let those feelings for her romantically die.
And if the girl is not around, that means that your coming off as too desperate, was put off by it and is avoiding you. Stop chasing her. Because she is not allowing you to catch her.
well I sure I wanted girl friend and she knew that tooand we still happy and lovely lively togetherjust she don't think i should be her boyfriendshe says like if we had slept together before knowing so much it would have been girlfriend boyfriend but now 😂😂
And it comes off as harassment.
Yeah she isn't interested in you in that way, and sex would make it worse. It's best to take that as a hint to drop it. Find another girl who is interesting, like I said before. Or take a break for a while and stop initiations with them. Let them make the move now.
no no chill.. no harsh meant she don't wana dine call me she had headache tell me... she wana fight caught meso the bond is stronger and caring
Huh? Oh no that last comment was about the other girl who I said is ignoring you. This very last comment is about your current female friend.
so it's more inconvenient to to walk out now because she left that for us to be friends and friendship lasts forever
I never said ignoring.. I don't glue up so much that they can ignore me lolI ignore first if I smell uncomfortable 😂
@gentelmenjack As long as you no longer have romantic feelings for her then stay as friends. But if you can't control, then you have two choices: either separate for the while or move on.
not ignore but avoid
Avoiding and ignoring are the same thing if there is no verbal communication.
feeling... like we talk about it and she is like in your dreams and I need to buy groceries I'm going😂
avoiding is like refraining ignoring is like I don't care even if you die🤔
@gentelmenjack That's another reason why you may have to cut ties because you don't want a person who uses and preys on those unresolved feelings. I know you said on your dreams but fantasies is crossing that line.
and then call to tell me hey your favorite beer is on deal I got it for you
yea. that's what confused me too
Never pay attention to feeling induced dreams like that. It means that you have unresolved feelings for that person and your trying to fill in that void. That is not healthy. So that is my advice.
well she don't uses or preys... if we go out she splits the bill or pay and if I say no I got it.. she will be like OK I'm not coming again
no I don't dream her nowit's like Joey n Rachel... you watch friends lol😂
No I don't watch that show. Or TV shows in general for what they got today. Overall no dates with her if you two are not getting anywhere. Hang out as friends is okay.
but how to meet girls then 🐒
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Would it be rude to ask why exactly? Not in a judgmental way of course, I'm just curious.
I'm young and dumb to be honest I just like how much extra work I have to put in for a stuck up girl. I line down to earth girls as well but every time I've dated one I felt like I put literally no effort. Also probably need to mention I live in the wealthiest city in Texas so snotty girls are just what i'm used to. I've always had a thing for very rude and sarcastic girls as well. Don't listen to me i'm stupid and just want something to do :p
Well said buddy.
Im a shallow materialistic person and i'm not afraid to admit it
Just like the kind of i want huh :)
Anytime baby 😘