I like the guy a lot, but I also don't always like being the one who contacts first. I feel needy for contacting a guy, and I can go days without talking to him even though I do like him. It doesn't even bother me if he goes a while (like a week) without contacting me because I figure he's really busy so I don't want to bother him. I'm really not trying to play games or anything and I'm probably overthinking it, but I just don't know how many days I should go before contacting him. I can seriously go weeks without talking to a guy, but it sucks because I think sometimes it makes them feel like you're not interested in them when you really are.