I have a female friend. I've known her since junior yr in high school and now I'm thinking I'm attracted to her. Is that wrong?
Most Helpful Girl
Nope. You got a hardcore case of "heterosexual dude with a girl friend that got cute."5
Most Helpful Guy
No it is not wrong at all. but you do have to be careful on how you approach her if it is not a mutual feeling then you run the high risk of loosing her as a friend at least if it does not work out. You two will be very awkward around each other for a while.
If you do want her then you should start flirting with her, touching her more , and acting like a gentleman with her. Start treating her like a woman that you want to ask out. If she asks tell her casually don't make a big deal out of it. Let her know that you like her and don't want to hurt her but if it does not work out or if she does not want to date that you will still be her friend.
I just tried to date one of my female friends that I had come to like and she did not want to date me because I was to good for her and that she did not think that it was worth the risk of losing me to try and date. She valued my friendship over the possibility of something more and I have to respect her decision. Even though it hurt. After a while we got back to being friends again. After I showed interest in a new girl after a while she realized that I was over her and she started to act like her normal self and recalled around me.
Of you want to risk it go for her and see where it leads to.0