we had our first date last week, he said he wanted to do it again, but hasn't made plans yet. i know he gets super busy with his job and he has partial custody of his kids, so i don't wanna push it if he's making plans and just hasn't said so yet. how long does it normally take for the second date to get planned? is it safe or too soon to just ask him? we've been talking since that night so it's not like i haven't heard from him, we text a few times each day if not every other day. i also don't wanna be so forward that he runs the other way. i'm new to the dating field so not quite sure how to handle this one.