I don't get it, almost 2017, humanity and society is much more modern than ever before, why do you think it has always been and probably always will be the mans job to make the first move and be the initiator? Why is it masculine, manly, when a guy goes for what he wants or goes after what he wants? Me personally, i never had a hunter instinct inside of me
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1. Most girls are scared of rejection just like a ton of you guys are. It's dumb that people can't just say how they feel but it's true.
2. I see females getting called "too flirty" and "thirsty" by other girls and guys for being the one to approach a guy they like.
3. It's considered masculine because men are "supposed" to be the leaders. They are "supposed" to be the ones who chase. It's been happening for so long now that people are just accustomed to it. It's not how it should be but it's what it is.
4. People love to stereotype. They don't take in to account people's personalities or preferences. HA nope they just lump each gender into a category and expect them to fit the guidelines. Then when someone tries to "break the rules" some people get upset, so many just feel it's best to behave according to the social standard for their gender.
And... this got really long in a short amount of time1