We broke up because of distance, however i found i lost myself and wasn't meeting my potential in life. I felt like i put myself on hold while being with him.
Im missing however the fun moments we had. I felt an instant connection with him. I've dated others but can't get over him. I dont want to keep thinking about him but i can't stop, when i do i cry. I dont want to feel weak and vunerable anymore, what can help me get over him. We broke up last year, I've even tried taking him off my socials to help me forget but i just can't seem to shake him off.
Any advice/stories would be greatly appreciated xx
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It can take a long time to get over someone regardless how long you dated. I once dating a guy like, 3 weeks if even and I was hung up on him for over a year. It's not sad. It shows you are human and humans get attached. I know this is cliche but time really does heal and you have to be patient. Like you can't rush these things. Experiences and meeting other people and living your life will enable you to move on fully. Till then you gotta push through and keep yourself busy and work on your goals. Stay focused on the things you have control over.
I have to ask though. if you feel so passionate about him, have you considered getting back to him and maybe making it work? Or are you convinced he's not the right match for you?0