It seems like there's a huge number of guys today who have zero confidence in themselves. I see it in my younger brother and some of his friends, like they don't believe girls will ever want them. It's terrible because confidence means everything to a guy's success in general and with girls in specific.
I'm not the most attractive guy in the world. In fact, I started to go bald right after high school. But I shaved my head, hit the gym, and owned who I was, and I have no trouble getting dates. My current girlfriend is absolutely gorgeous, but she never once thought she was out of my league because I presented myself with pride and confidence in who I was. But then I look around and I see guys who have hair and are honestly better looking than me who complain that they can't get dates. I don't understand why these guys don't give themselves a chance?
So, girls, what do you think are the reasons so many guys lack confidence today?
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I don't know, really. I read somewhere that guys have less testosterone today because of chemical exposures. Maybe that's partially to blame. But yeah, I agree, guys need confidence to succeed with girls. My ex was bald and not traditionally handsome, but he had muscle and balls of steel, and that made him incredibly attractive to me. Guys don't need to look like Brad Pitt to get girls. In fact, lots of us find that to be a turnoff.0