Oh also, that excitement is some reason men go off and cheat before they realize what they had. Be careful with that. There's always ways to bring excitement into you and your current gf's life!
It was hopefully and my relationship with ky 2nf girlfriend wasn't all that great all we did was sit in a living room for 8 months till her parents forced us apart. Which is why i dont understand why my feeling or no where close too what i felt for ky ex yet my current relationship is 100%better and i no longer feel like a bird in a cage. I would never cheat om a girl since my 2nd gr cheated twice on me i tried making it wrong but i felt nothing for her at all a kiss was like kissing a wall with her. With mt 3nd and current girlfriend i do have real feeling for her which are strong then they were 4 months ago but not evem close too what i felt with my ex girlfriend.
Think of it this was- the grass always looks greener on the other side. Was this ex one of your first serious girlfriends?
I known it not greener and more then likely if i date my ex girlfriend it would end the same way am not even sure i would even call what we had a relationship and tbh i feel like we never had a relationship to begun with. But yes that was my first seriously relationship before had i had friends with benefits also i did not have sex with my ex we were waiting till we got married. But i did have sex with my current girlfriend
It being your first serious relationship could've had an impact on it.I had the same thing with my ex. I still think about him sometimes, even though he treated me like garbage. I got a thrill out of being with him.
Maybe was also told by someone it heing my first relationship has nothing to do with it. And do u still speak to your ex? and it was a thrill being with my ex girlfriend i just loved her and that's why i put up with all the bs.
I don't speak to my ex anymore because honestly he STILL brightens my day when I see him. Even though he probably hates me.I thought what I had for my ex was love, because that's how I justified putting up with his bs as well. Now I realize it was infaturation.Infaturation feels so much more exciting and better than love, but has less commitment
I don't belive it was the same thing for me i truly belive i loved my ex girlfriend since we liked each other since high school and did date since we didn't wanna kill the friendship. I almost married her a year n half ago.
how long were you together?Yeah I don't discount your feelings! I just hope it doesn't hinder you from being happy with the girl you're with
8 months and friends for almost 7 years been apart for almost 2 years now. No am 100% happy with the new girl but do u understand what its like to be looking for something you may not find? or have the person your with say i feel you don't love me the way i love u.
I completely understand that. Right now I am dating a guy I've known for 10 years, and I still question if it's love. I'm happy with him but I get why you feel like you're looking for something you may not find.
I been looking for the feeling my ex made me feel for along whike but also soemthing more aka that feeling but in a healthy relationship.
Will do have small light arguments about driving etc but nothing big or that not fixed in under 10min. But am talking about not feeling strongly enough about them. Like you wre in love with a ex you date and how they made u feel was out of this world. But with the curremt boyfriend you love them but its not intense or even close to what u had with ex.
well I dont know, sorry
Will thank u for your input
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