Guys, should I ask him out, even though he's busy, or wait until the New Year?

So I'm thinking of being brave and asking my crush out on a date.

I know he's busy through December with Christmas dos and birthday parties. So is it better to wait until January? Will he be more likely to say yes if he's less busy?

I'm thinking of waiting, but my friends keep telling me to do it now.

Logically, I know how busy he is doesn't affect whether he's interested in me or not, but I can't help wondering.

Opinions would be appreciated, thanks!

  • Do it now, if he's interested he'll make time for you
  • Wait, if he's unsure he might say no if he's busy
  • Other (please comment, thanks)
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Thanks for the responses so far, anyone else?
So he might be out this weekend. Should I ask him, or wait?


What Guys Said 1

  • how busy is he?

    • I'm not sure exactly, but I don't think I'll see him for a while, and he's usually at the pub/on nights out about once a week (we have the same friends, well we are friends too). Not sure if he'll be out with us til January though now.

      He might be out on Saturday, he wasn't going to, but said he might after I said I was going.

    • definitely ask

    • Thanks, I might if i'm feeling brave!

What Girls Said 1

  • You can be his new years kiss! Best of luck