So this guy and I were getting close for a few months, he told me I was his ideal women, we spoke and met at least 5 times a week and he said that he was falling for me, but he didn't want a relationship as 'they mess everything up'. I started back at university and we both became insanely busy so we barely saw each other. I recently saw him at the weekend after a month and it was like nothing had changed, he said that he loves me a little bit when he was drunk. I just don't know whether or not he is playing me and just after sex or being genuine? Any advice..