i asked out a girl in college and she said no. Years later, after I got a high paying job, she started showing interest again and claiming she wasn't ready before. As we both are Asian, plenty of Asian women who only dated non Asian guys in the past started showing interest in me. They even started to make my exes and my current girlfriend (who are mostly white and Latina, 1 Lebanese , and 1 Japanese) feel bad for dating me, by teasing them for dating an Asian guy. But they write it off as immature mistakes. What should I do now?