I did apologize soon after. I had no intent of degrading a woman, i just meant what i said about showing personality will get me attracted to a girl.
Can you message me, hi :p
I also think it's a little ironic that you went off on this whole rant about how personality is the only thing that matters, but you didn't exactly showcase your own personality in the best of light. That's something you may want to think about. Caring about a girl's personality is great, don't get me wrong, but YOUR personality matters too.
We know each other in person. Just she stared to hangout more with me, and i had to tell her upfront. Just wish it wasn't the way i said it. I'm an unusual guy, i just have high respect for women. It might not seem like it, but i don't wanna see a woman for what she wears or assets. Just her personality, and only personality is good enough for me. "Its the inside that counts."
My advice would be to think long and carefully about how you word your texts. You have time. It's not like she's right in front of you, waiting for a response. The words you use make a large impact. Even more so when in written form, since there is no inflection or tone to help convey what you are saying. if you are interested in this girl, kindly apologize for your comments. Explain to her, like you've explained here. Hopefully, any inury caused will heal. It may take her some time to trust you again, if she feels like she ever will. Be the best gentleman you can. Words are powerful, so choose wisely.
I admit i was a bit mean, but i wasn't trying to. I just wanted to make things clear no matter what, personality is the only thing i care about.
Maybe she has the same opinion? You could have said something like "I'd like to get to know you better first" or something. Being polite is quite important you know.
Good point JulieXO.
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it's a surprise, but I taught myself this. To only go for personality
Well approaching a woman like that will not help you.
it's the inside that counts
Its the outside that shows.
O. o how? at relationship based on looks is bad
You're blinded. A relationship based on personality is the same. Find the balance of the two.
It wasn't my intent to say it so rudely. I admit that, but personality is above all else. I don't wanna see a girl for body, or women being called disgusting words (slut, hoe, etc). I'm just a bit more upfront to sure no girl will be used by me, and treated as a person. All girls have dreams, and goals.
You think you're being a decent guy by saying you value personality over appearance. That's great, good for you. Your delivery is shocking, you seriously seem like the biggest asshole from those texts. I would NEVER even think of befriending someone who spoke like that to me, let alone dating. All she said was that she likes you and then you start this high and might tirade on what YOU like! Personality is definitely important and going by the above you have a terrible one. How nice of you to grace her with your presence so she has the opportunity for you to maybe like the person she is 🙄Here's a better approach:L: hey I like youMpm: that's really nice, personality is so important to me - maybe we could get to know each other better? L: cool Not hard dude
Ok i was wrong. :) We're still hanging out this Saturday so she can get to show me her personality better.
Maybe you can learn some manners by then
Excuse me sir, what do you mean exactly?
My intention wasn't to be harsh, just telling her personality is all I'm looking for.
what you die a virgin?
Actually i'm fairly normal, but got character flaws.
Nah there is nothing normal about you."It's disgusting to like a girls body"Get your shit together.